Heaven, pure heaven! This is a Godsend for me. I've been stuck in a dead end marriage from which I want a divorce, but am sticking it out because my children are young. I literally haven't had sex since my last child was conceived, which was 5 years ago. I haven't had an orgasm since years before that. Got this in the mail today, and was concerned at first because the directions said it was supposed to be charged to 50% but mine wouldn't turn on. Happy I read through reviews, because the "port " on the bottom doesn't have a hole. You gently poke a hole through the silicone with the metal tip of the charger. I charged it when I went to bed and was actually excited to wake up early, because that meant I could try out my new "friend". Unbelievable. I've never used adult toys before, but this one has me sold. Husbands are way too overrated. Take care of it yourself - probably just like you do with everything else in your life anyways!